Women invented the body count phenomenon. lol.. but we have discussed nonexisting numbers quite alot this year… It's sad that I'm saying sorry to you for having low/non-existing numbers but that's reality right now. Trust me, very few things hurt a man more than this because you really can't imagine what he has said about you to this guy directly or around him. Body count went up to 5 in one year, and then I met this guy, delicious to look at, impossible not to drool over, and I nominated him for body no.6, but upgraded to possible baby daddy. Why?
Learn how your comment data is processed. Does a porn star even have that number??? "Hurt" as in bad relationships and women leaving him.
I will ask if he/she has done a medical test to ensure no STDs have been transferred. I’m going to throw in a poll today just to help us put things in perspective. 0 Joel 96
Body Count FUCKING matters!!!!!!!!!!!! Hearing a high body count just always completely turns me off. It matters simply because aint nobody tryna wife a hoe my nigga.
If I was her, I will call Toni to come up with evidence to back his claim and to sue him if he doesnt. How am I supposed to know he/she are in the past, if y’all are still taking it to that level? If you’re in a relationship and are casually dating, just calmly tell them, “Since you clearly have such a big issue with the number of partners I have, I’ll break up with you.
If a man said he had only been with three women, his friends would mock and jeer him as being almost a virgin. (I wasn’t having sex with them, so I didn’t care and was content with them having as many partners as they chose.) I asked him how many of the 8 girls he’s slept with has he loved.... cause it’s the same kind of absurd judgemental attitude.
On a super weird note, he also told me that I was the first girl he’s gone down on... sooo I don’t believe that. I wouldn't be surprised if he was lying.
I’ve come under fire in the past for admitting that I have an extremely high body count. The idea being that women want to seem more chaste, so they lie. People can have a lot of bad sex and if nobody communicates they don't learn.Thanks for responding. Take the poll (totally anonymous) and then share your thoughts – does body count really matter?
The guys inclusive? It matters. As a guy, I'd be mortified at the idea of asking a woman about her sex life unless we've been dating a while and I just want to know her better/please her or because we're just opening up to one another, the way COMMITTED/ESTABLISHED (yes I emphasized these on purpose) couples that trust each other and have reached the point where they can be vulnerable with one another do. We go back and forth with this subject.
But I was (and still am) always open and honest about how many people I've been with and I have always very routinely get blood work done for STDs. Hookups, short relationships, fwb's etc aren't my thing and I've personally always waited till my life was stable before I'd actually try to start a relationship, thus it's not like I am the kind of person with a high body count and search for someone with no body count. Perfect" until you're locked in. Many people consider their sexual past private and an off-limit subject. Ask Men Anything.
Ever since that incident I’ve been insecure/hesitant about telling a guy how many people I’ve slept with :/. Many women feel the need to lie about how many people they’ve been with because they think putting out the right number will scare away prospects.
I don't care much for how this should matter to anyone else. It only matters that you do. Favorite . So religion isn't a factor. But the thing is, quite often, guys don’t lie about this because there really is no point to it. That's sexist, remember it goes both ways.
200 years ago, society demanded a person’s body count be zero, or one if they were married.
Again, I am referring to relationships.
But for every expert saying that, there is a matching so called expert claiming a certain body count is a potential red flag for trustworthiness in a relationship.
If you decide to stop seeing him. Are there sexual activities a person could have been involved with in their past that would make a relationship in the present a no go?
What's the difference between one person hitting it before you and 5? MALE HOEs exists.
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Am I late to this dicsussion? He’s been going down on me since the 3rd date, but avoids my hand when I try to reciprocate.
"When a man is ready to choose, he looks at the options available and with as little emotion as possible, he logically looks at the woman who ticks most of the boxes he considers paramount to building a long term relationship and based on that he makes his decision.". It actually wasn't as scary as I thought it would be. That’s what the comment section is for. I do like to buy pretty ones, but eew, not keeping the wraps.
I dont think anyone will continue to keep records, unless they went thru a phase where they sleep with someone every day of one single year. It simply does not matter to me. People grew up differently, people are different. I’ve also seen people straight up go after others for having a higher-than-average number of sexual partners. The guys reading this right now, if I as another guy asked you, how many chics you’ve been with, you’d probably have to sit down and think – and NO, it’s not because it’s always a lot. Some experts strongly state that body counts should never be divulged.
Somebody waiting to say “the amount of sexual partners you have, doesn’t mean you have an STD”. Interesting response and I thank you for sharing. This is BS. Xper 6 +1 y. Yeah it does.
Others are the exact opposite and only have emotional meaningful sex, or they don’t have sex at all. A body count higher than two or three tends to turn me off.
Does body count really matter and why? Depending on how close he is to the said guy, things are bound to get awkward but you know what, refer to my last point, if and when a man is ready, nothing will get in his way – not even the fact that one of your previous partners is his close buddy.
If humans were honest creatures, none of this would be an issue. Sometimes that simply stems from the person having an emotional nature. But just because we can do something and have the freedom to do so doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. As you pointed people that hook up don’t really care about it and never will, because they don’t need to.But the problem arises when you want to have a family and the data points it’s better to have a partner with lower body count( data) and psychology says the same to, if you make your body learn that sex is only physical, than you would’ve lost it’s bonding and affection, since you do it with randoms. That's when it matters.
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Is that too personal?
Had an experience like that. And the best way to deal with it is to make so much fuss about it to the point where people start lying?
The next step is going to be asking you lots of questions about your past experiences to the point of obsession and on from there. But they were the ones who were more affectionate, more emotional, more territorial, more nervous.
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Press J to jump to the feed. Here's why I say it does matter: The men that I have been with, who had very few or no previous partners, were ABSOLUTELY more clingy. So no, not every woman include body count in their stats.
He’s been going down on me since the 3rd date, but avoids my hand when I try to reciprocate.
A: Yes, zero.
Personally, I believe that this question can raise a lot of conflicts, and if you are in a relationship and you know your partner has been sexually active before you it would probably be best not to ask if you are looking for a particular answer.
Like Beth said, what's important to you? It’s really very simple – a chic with a high body count has little or nothing to lose so she goes out of her way to feed her man’s ego by giving him all the necessary information he needs.
Like am I ever gonna come face to face with a person who can say they had you in that way and I’m looking crazy cause I didn’t know? That doesn't mean that I absolutely wouldn't date or marry someone with a zero count, but I would be apprehensive if I found that out. Taken multiple guys' virginity, and had equal pretty good and just ok times, definitely had to teach them things. Even then, if my partner feels uncomfortable answering, that's the end of that conversation PERIOD.
Well, first, and then other memories of the day may follow. If I am reading you correctly, if her body count is above three you wouldn't consider dating a particular girl?
But don’t be offended by it.
once you don’t have an std,i’m cool. Why?
Obviously, if you’ve given him a figure before then, you need to stick to the script.
Just cos you were brought up in a kind of family where sex was a big deal doesn't mean another person was.
I felt like it could have been Coming from a place of seeing if I’d be the type to not commit.
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Now, how you do it is another discussion entirely. For a girl I'm serious about, it does not matter. Well, if you keep talking/writing about it, and trying to make a case for why it doesn't matter, then I'd say it does. Anyway, I'm not quite obsessed with "numbers" – I'm however not sure how to deal with girls who sleep with married Men (even if its just one). There are ways to talk to your partner like a mature responsible sex-loving person. 2 kobo well spent.
But if a 12-year-old girl had 10 partners already, most would say that is far too many. it's not like you knew they were friends when you slept with the nigga, Thanks, Tula n Nosa. A lot of women may think they are doing themselves a favour by lying to their significant other but I strongly disagree.
It doesn’t matter how you choose to cut things short. I don't care. Basically, there's no consistentcy, that I've experienced, between how good men are in bed and how many partners they've had.
But then why go down on you? You know it’s not what you say, but how you say it. Posted by Ossiana Tepfenhart | Sep 13, 2020 | Dating | 0 |.
This tends to suggest serious insecurities that can lead to body shaming, sexual repression, and emotional abuse if you have a count, not to their liking.
Zally. It’s almost a subconscious thing, but the higher the body count, mathematically that lessens the likelihood a certain guy is her best, biggest etc. I like to know their history just to get a judgment on what they expect or if they may need some training or anything like that. I’m not saying just go with the wind and spill all the beans. #AskYourMCM: Does body count matter?
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